Struggle as I do, I once more find myself unsuccessful in avoiding the Fox blockbuster, American Idol. Once again, I enjoy watching how the various performers respond to the weekly critiques offered up by Randy, Paula and Simon. Much about these young people is demonstrated by how “coachable” they are. Do they react in knee jerk fashion to comments made by the judges? Or, do they listen and take what is worthwhile and helpful, applying the suggestions so as to improve their performance the following week?

Invariably, those who are most coachable seem to stick around the longest and develop the largest following.

One of the most helpful attributes a parent can help his or her child develop is being coachable. Being coachable reflects the child’s desire to improve as well as his or her recognition that there are always others who know more. A refreshing humility permeates confident coachability. So, parents, as you like me, find yourself drawn to watching American Idol, you can use it as a time to not only enjoy the performances but to teach your child about the important of being coachable.