As a father of a son and two daughters, gender equity is very important to me. It is vital that all three of my children, regardless of gender, have full opportunity to develop their talents and abilities. Gender equity has, however, taken on a new twist. Recent reports indicate that equity has been approached as young women are as active as their male counterparts in abusing alcohol, illegal drugs and smoking.

When reading the report citing this development, I was reminded that with increased opportunity and freedom for children, the importance of parental teaching and guidance must be underscored. A sailboat will move in whatever direction the wind blows except for its center board and rudder. By using this equipment along with the win, the sailor can reach any destination. For children, the rudder and centerboard represent their values and dreams. Parents are instrumental in helping their children acquire and develop those values and dreams. Without them, a child is ‘rudder-less’ and subject to the ‘winds’ of negative peer pressures and short term thinking. With positive values and dreams, a child can build a successful life. Parents must take their duty of being a child’s first and best teacher very seriously.